What If You Stopped Trying?

Mark Manson's book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck*, brought to my attention how disempowering the word "try" is. 

I know for some people the title may feel offensive, but don’t judge a book by its cover. 

After reading Manson’s book, I realized that using the word “try” in any sentence held me back. It gave me an excuse and prevented me from committing fully. 

So a couple of years ago, I challenged myself to eliminate the word "try" from my vocabulary. 

Although it wasn’t always easy, the results were remarkable. I found myself making definitive choices and experiencing more momentum in both my personal and professional life.

As we step into, Q3 2024 and a new 90-day cycle, it’s the perfect time to ditch "trying" and be even more intentional with the words you are using mentally and on the page as you set your Q3 goals and create your next 90-Day. Plan. 

Words hold incredible energy, and when we upgrade our vocabulary, we unlock new levels of productivity and opportunities.

Masaru Emoto’s study on water crystals, which I discuss in my book, Daily Momentum, revealed that words influence the structure of water. 

Since our bodies are primarily made of water, it begs the question: "What effect do the words we use and surround ourselves with have on our bodies and minds?" 

Robert T. Kiyosaki, in Rich Dad Poor Dad, emphasizes avoiding the word "can't," opting instead for phrases like, "I haven't figured out how yet." Simple small, intentional changes like these open doors to new possibilities.

Think of it like playing Wordle or Scrabble—every word matters. Turn "can't" into possibilities, "should" into commitments, and "try" into actions. 

This simple habit transforms our conversations and reinforces a mindset of positivity and capability.

If you're ready to make the next 90-Day cycle your best yet and would like 1:1 coaching to help you set up your next (or first) 90-day plan, I'd love to help you.

Consider joining The Momentum Squad which now includes 1:1 coaching, and weekly group support to keep you even more accountable, focused and productive. 

Now is the perfect time, as next week, we'll kick off the NEW 90-Day Reset, with a fun recharge scavenger hunt, followed by personalized 1:1 sessions to put together our Q3 2024 90-Day Plans. 

Remember, upgrading your vocabulary is just the beginning. The real change happens when you start noticing the words you use and the impact they have on your day to day decisions and actions. 

Let's make this 90-day cycle your best yet!

Here is to your unstoppable momentum,

The Get it Done Diva 

(Marianne Emma Jeff)

And don't forget…

"Greatness is a Habit, NOT a Hustle!"